out my mind. . just in time

recovering undercover over-lover. recovering from a love i can't get over

hunnnnie:

I want someone to really want me. Make a big deal about me, tell me I’m on your mind way too fucking much but you kinda like it. Make it completely obvious that I’m the person you want. Tell me you can’t wait to see me; show me how you feel so I can feel it too.
Make me feel something I’ve never felt before. Tell your friends about me & I’ll tell them about how you make butterflies swam my stomach. Want me as much as I want you.

“Imagine if we looked for air the way we look for love. Now, imagine if we looked for love the way we look for air. If only we’d stop looking and learned to just breathe…love…”

– D’Vane R Polhill (via psych-facts)

1. Your skin may never be perfect, and that’s okay.

2. Life is too short not to have the underwear, the coffee, and the haircut you want.

3. Everyone (including your family, your coworkers, and your best friend) will talk about you behind your back, and you’ll talk about them too. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other.

4. It’s okay to spend money on things that make you happy.

5. Sometimes without fault or reason, relationships deteriorate. It will happen when you’re six, it will happen when you’re sixty. That’s life.

– Five things I am trying very hard to accept (via stayy0ungandwild)

“Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk — you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.”

inkskinned, “My father’s recipe for the man I should marry”  (via boonebound)

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(via ddecatur)

yourpersonalcheerleader:

I want to know everyone’s stories. I want to sit with you for hours, just listening. Stories are the most remarkable thing, how they unfold and you can start to understand a little bit more about how each moment has transformed and shaped someone into the person you know and love today.

There’s so much power in your story.
I hope you see that <3

whattemiloves:

A Woman Should Have by Maya Angelou
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …enough money within her control to move outand rent a place of her own,even if she never wants to or needs to…A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …something perfect to wear if the employer,or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..a youth she’s content to leave behind….A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward toretelling it in her old age….A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …..a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored…A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …a feeling of control over her destiny…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…how to fall in love without losing herself..EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…how to quit a job,break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…that she can’t change the length of her calves,the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. whom she can trust,whom she can’t,and why she shouldn’t take it personally…EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…where to go…be it to her best friend’s kitchen table..or a charming inn in the woods…when her soul needs soothing… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…a month…and a year…
Maya Angelou said it all…

whattemiloves:


A Woman Should Have by Maya Angelou

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
something perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a youth she’s content to leave behind….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …..
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
a feeling of control over her destiny…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without;
ruining the friendship…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table..
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
a month…and a year…

Maya Angelou said it all…

psych-facts:

Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you. - Carl Jung

psych-facts:

Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you. - Carl Jung